Alimony & Post Separation Support

Spousal Support in NC

North Carolina has two types of spousal support: post separation support and alimony. Post separation support may be in effect during the time you are separated, while alimony may be paid after the divorce is finalized. This is a complicated area of law and you should meet with a divorce attorney to discuss your specific situation. You and your spouse might reach an agreement on spousal support—but here is an overview of how the court deals with the subject.

What Is Post Separation Support?

Post separation support (PSS) is sometimes called temporary alimony. When a married couple separates, the income that was paying for one home now has to pay for two. The idea of PSS is to keep the bills paid on a temporary basis. The spouse who needs the money is the “dependent spouse.” The spouse who pays the money is the “supporting spouse.” PSS is usually easier to get since it is temporary. If after the separation, you can’t pay your bills, but your spouse can pay their own bills and have money left over, you may be able to get PSS.

PSS is usually paid monthly, but there are other options. It can be paid in a lump sum or by transferring assets to the dependent spouse. Post-separation support can be for a specified period of time, or until the court makes a decision about alimony. Unlike child support, PSS may have tax consequences. Prior to 2019, post separation support was generally taxable income to the spouse who received it, and a deductible expense to the spouse who paid it. Under the Tax Cuts & Jobs Act, this changed for agreements and some modifications dated 2019 and later. You may wish to check with an attorney or tax advisor to learn how this impacts you.

The statute for post separation support can be found here.

Will I Get Alimony or Will I Pay Alimony?

Like post separation support, alimony is intended to provide financial support for the dependent spouse. Unlike post separation support, alimony may also serve to compensate the dependent spouse for financial sacrifices made during the marriage, or for marital misconduct – such as adultery or abuse – committed by the supporting spouse. Alimony is not intended to punish a spouse for marital misconduct, but simply to shift the economic hardship of a divorce onto the shoulders of the spouse who caused the break up through bad behavior.

When determining whether to award alimony, the court will look at many factors including:

• The incomes of both parties;
• Their debts;
• Living expenses during the marriage and now; and
• Whether an award of alimony would be fair under the circumstances of the case.

Once the court determines that one spouse needs alimony (the “dependent spouse”) and the other spouse can afford to pay alimony (the “supporting spouse”) , the court will then consider whether either or both parties committed adultery before they separated, and whether the innocent party forgave or gave permission to the guilty one. If the court finds that:

• The dependent spouse committed adultery, but the supporting spouse did not, then the court will not award alimony to the dependent spouse.
• The supporting spouse committed adultery, but the dependent spouse did not, the court will award alimony to the dependent spouse.
• Both parties committed adultery, then the court may use its discretion as to whether to award alimony.

As part of the determination of whether to award alimony, and if so, for how long, the court must consider several other factors.

• The ages and physical, mental, emotional conditions of both spouses;
• Their incomes, including non-paycheck income like dividends, and benefits such as medical, retirement, insurance, social security, or others;
• The length of the marriage;
• Whether, and how much, one spouse contributed to the education or earning potential of the other spouse;
• Whether one spouse staying at home with the children reduced that spouse’s earning capacity;
• The standard of living during the marriage;
• The ability of each party to get a job, how much money they are able to earn, and their level of education or need for training to get a job;
• The property either spouse brought to the marriage;
• The contribution of a spouse as homemaker;
• The relative needs of the spouses; and
• The debts of each spouse and whether either spouse is paying support for other children or previous spouses.

One of the less obvious factors that the court considers is the tax consequences of the alimony award. Prior to 2019, alimony payments were usually taxable to the person receiving them and deductible to the person paying; that law has now changed. The actual list of factors is set out in the alimony statute, N.C.G.S. § 50-16.3A.

After the Divorce, Can I Still Get Alimony?

If you did not file a claim for alimony with the court before you got divorced, you cannot get alimony now. You have to file the claim before the divorce order is entered.