I am getting a divorce. My ex says that we will have to sell everything and then split the money. Is that right?

No, that is not how it works. In North Carolina, the court is required to make an “in-kind” distribution whenever possible.   That means that the court will try not to order that anything be sold.   The process of dividing your marital property and debts is called “equitable distribution”. It involves a 4-step analysis. (1) The…