MEET KIRSTEN GRIESER
FAMILY LAW ATTORNEY
Driven. Compassionate. Empowering.
KIRSTEN GRIESER
ASSOCIATE ATTORNEY
Kirsten Grieser is a family law attorney serving Durham, Orange, Chatham, and Alamance Counties.
“THE LEGAL SYSTEM CAN BE FRIGHTENING. OUR GOAL IS TO MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR RIGHTS AND HELP YOU FEEL EMPOWERED.”
Kirsten is a two-time graduate of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, earning her law degree in 2019 and her bachelor’s degree in 2015. She is proud to have completed over 120 pro bono hours during law school, with a particular focus on victims of domestic violence.
Kirsten decided she was going to grow up to be a family lawyer when she was fifteen years old, after an attorney helped her during a family crisis. She achieved that dream when she began practicing family law in 2021, and she has continued helping people like herself ever since. Her goal is to give her clients the same feelings of empowerment and security that she got from her own family law experience.
Kirsten is a dual German-American citizen and a fluent German speaker. She grew up in Charlotte, North Carolina, but has made the Triangle her home for the past 10 years. When she’s not in court or advocating for her clients, you can find her knitting homemade socks, playing tabletop games, and cooking authentic German food.

Close to home
We represent family law, estate planning, and probate clients, primarily in Chatham and Orange Counties in North Carolina. Averett Family Law offices are convenient to Pittsboro, Siler City, Chapel Hill, Hillsborough, Carrboro and surrounding towns.
If you’re considering separation or divorce, struggling with child custody or support issues, need help with estate planning or probate, or have any other family law questions, contact us today for an appointment.
Se habla español. Wir sprechen deutsch.
What they are saying...
Zealous and effective advocate
"I have worked with Melissa as opposing counsel on cases and know her generally as a member of our local family law bar. Melissa is an excellent attorney, and any client would be well-served by her representation. She is highly knowledgeable in all areas of family law, and she is a zealous and effective advocate for her clients."
Extremely understanding
"I hired Melissa and her team over 3 years ago to handle my divorce and custody issues. She is extremely understanding and will fight to get what her clients need. She actually listens and gives her clients the legal advice and options for their particular case. She helps her clients make the tough decisions together as a team. Melissa is extremely detailed and efficient. I would strongly recommend her and her staff in whatever your legal needs are."
Regain confidence and control
When I was referred to Melissa and her staff, I was trying to get a grip on a very unstable situation with separation and custody. I was feeling stuck, helpless and scared until I landed in Melissa's office. From our first meeting, Melissa "got it" and knew how to handle things knowledgeably, efficiently, safely and professionally. She helped me understand the legal system, helped me get some direction and understand my rights. She slowly but surely helped me regain a sense of confidence and control in my life and in my situation. I have told her this many times but she has honestly changed the direction and course of my life with her extensive knowledge and endless support. I felt I was a helpless person in a helpless situation and she gave me a voice. I felt she has always worked out of the best interest of my children and myself. She responds to crisis situations very quickly, calmly and professionally. She is tough, responsive and she really knows her stuff and I am so glad I landed in her office three years ago. Thank you.